This humble Relationship Words Of Advice By A True African Woman shared by a true enterprising young African lady would give you an in-dept...
This humble Relationship Words Of Advice By A True African Woman shared by a true enterprising young African lady would give you an in-depth knowledge on how to build the right blissful relationship that you truly would always desire and want to be a part of it.
Lemme tell you something you have no right to complain about men anymore until you start getting better taste in them.
If you want a good marriage, marry a man with sense, if you're a feminist marry a man who believes greatly in the greatness of women beyond the kitchen because all the relationship/marriage advice in the world won’t make any difference if you’re choosing or have chosen the wrong guy, a friend of mine got very angry on a facebook post yesterday with women who are in terribly bad relationships/marriage asking for advice with the slogan.. I know he loves me but yenyenyenyenyen..
The part of choosing a good man is the step that often gets missed or overlooked. Women hammer away, trying to pound the proverbial square peg into a round hole, then wonder what they’re doing wrong, why they can’t seem to make it fit, why they can’t get the love they want. You can’t turn a losing stock into a winning stock and get it into your head today, nothing in the world you do can convince someone to feel a certain way about you.
I have been there, done that, and if you’re talking about relationship with the wrong guy, take a seat let’s discuss my ordeal in this small world or maybe I’ll leave it for some other time…
I think that I spent way too long chasing after guys who weren’t the right fit for me, and then I wondered what was wrong when it didn’t get me lasting love!
The problem was simple: I was choosing the wrong men. It sounds straightforward enough, but it’s a very tricky thing.
We fall in love with these types of men because we’re swept up in the passion, the chemistry, and the intoxicating aura that comes with it.
We get stock with people who have absolutely no respect for us because most times they look the part, have the type of career we admire in our men or just maybe everyone else is getting married except you, so you want to atop being picky, manage what you see and also get hitch.
We convince ourselves that this is it that he’s the one and we just need to make him see it.
This is where the problems develop, this is where all the questions and tears and doubt and uncertainties and fears start to consume you. You mistake these feelings for true love because maybe you’ve never felt this way before, and you think it must be because this guy is different and this relationship is meant to last.
Dear Ladies this is just a glimpse into the confusion that ensues when you choose the wrong guy. If you’re hung up on a man who can’t commit or won’t commit or who is mean to you or who is just a mean person in general, a guy with baggage, a guy with serious issues, a guy who you think would be perfect “if only” he changed such and such, then you’re setting yourself up to lose before you even begin, and you are blocking yourself from ever finding the love you want.
Have they ever told you to drag Mr wrong to the right side, or.. Lines like just manage him like that, there are no many men out there? He will come along when you guys are married and especially children starts to come... Yenyenyenyen.
If this is you, you're setting out to loose in life and also might miss heaven, you're okay been a sane single old lady than have a bad marriage, most Nigerian married ladies are married to Jesus o, they have comforted themselves in Christ and only stay in the marriage cos of society.
I’ve seen many situations where a couple breaks up after a long period of time because of some issue that was apparent right from the beginning In every one of these situations, the couple believed that things would magically just work out. Imagine how much time and effort they would have saved and heartbreak they would have avoided had they been dating with their heads instead of their hearts from the beginning.
So get how fine he is behind you, how good his job or business; big question is;
Does he respect you?
Does he loves and cares for you?
Does he respects your opinion and seeks your agreement in taking key actions?
Does he sacrifice things for you or come out for you when you need someone?
Does he have same beliefs and values as you?
Does he like growth and ready to make adjustments?
If he ticks no to all of these but ticks yes to having a good job, being handsome, occupying good position in church or very good in bed.
Sister you have not found him, save all of us the stress of marital advices on social media and go look for your own man.
This is mine...
Source: Engr Roberta Edu
Lemme tell you something you have no right to complain about men anymore until you start getting better taste in them.
If you want a good marriage, marry a man with sense, if you're a feminist marry a man who believes greatly in the greatness of women beyond the kitchen because all the relationship/marriage advice in the world won’t make any difference if you’re choosing or have chosen the wrong guy, a friend of mine got very angry on a facebook post yesterday with women who are in terribly bad relationships/marriage asking for advice with the slogan.. I know he loves me but yenyenyenyenyen..
The part of choosing a good man is the step that often gets missed or overlooked. Women hammer away, trying to pound the proverbial square peg into a round hole, then wonder what they’re doing wrong, why they can’t seem to make it fit, why they can’t get the love they want. You can’t turn a losing stock into a winning stock and get it into your head today, nothing in the world you do can convince someone to feel a certain way about you.
I have been there, done that, and if you’re talking about relationship with the wrong guy, take a seat let’s discuss my ordeal in this small world or maybe I’ll leave it for some other time…
I think that I spent way too long chasing after guys who weren’t the right fit for me, and then I wondered what was wrong when it didn’t get me lasting love!
The problem was simple: I was choosing the wrong men. It sounds straightforward enough, but it’s a very tricky thing.
We fall in love with these types of men because we’re swept up in the passion, the chemistry, and the intoxicating aura that comes with it.
We get stock with people who have absolutely no respect for us because most times they look the part, have the type of career we admire in our men or just maybe everyone else is getting married except you, so you want to atop being picky, manage what you see and also get hitch.
We convince ourselves that this is it that he’s the one and we just need to make him see it.
This is where the problems develop, this is where all the questions and tears and doubt and uncertainties and fears start to consume you. You mistake these feelings for true love because maybe you’ve never felt this way before, and you think it must be because this guy is different and this relationship is meant to last.
Dear Ladies this is just a glimpse into the confusion that ensues when you choose the wrong guy. If you’re hung up on a man who can’t commit or won’t commit or who is mean to you or who is just a mean person in general, a guy with baggage, a guy with serious issues, a guy who you think would be perfect “if only” he changed such and such, then you’re setting yourself up to lose before you even begin, and you are blocking yourself from ever finding the love you want.
Have they ever told you to drag Mr wrong to the right side, or.. Lines like just manage him like that, there are no many men out there? He will come along when you guys are married and especially children starts to come... Yenyenyenyen.
If this is you, you're setting out to loose in life and also might miss heaven, you're okay been a sane single old lady than have a bad marriage, most Nigerian married ladies are married to Jesus o, they have comforted themselves in Christ and only stay in the marriage cos of society.
I’ve seen many situations where a couple breaks up after a long period of time because of some issue that was apparent right from the beginning In every one of these situations, the couple believed that things would magically just work out. Imagine how much time and effort they would have saved and heartbreak they would have avoided had they been dating with their heads instead of their hearts from the beginning.
So get how fine he is behind you, how good his job or business; big question is;
Does he respect you?
Does he loves and cares for you?
Does he respects your opinion and seeks your agreement in taking key actions?
Does he sacrifice things for you or come out for you when you need someone?
Does he have same beliefs and values as you?
Does he like growth and ready to make adjustments?
If he ticks no to all of these but ticks yes to having a good job, being handsome, occupying good position in church or very good in bed.
Sister you have not found him, save all of us the stress of marital advices on social media and go look for your own man.
This is mine...
Source: Engr Roberta Edu
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